You want to get some decent bay rum aftershave. J'adore Caribbean is probably the best you can get. They sell it in a few places like specialty shops and health food stores. Pinaud Clubman isn't nearly as good, but it is still better than "Stetson" or "Drakkar" and it costs five bucks at any drugstore. The good thing about Bay Rum is that if you overdo it a little you're not going to make her gag. Very clean scent. Chicks dig it.